Start by reading this JAMA Piece of My Mind “Speak Up” which describes one physician’s experience with speaking up when witnessing micro-aggressions or biased comments or behavior in the clinical workplace.
Then read this post from STAT News that describes a medical student’s experience with racist comments during her clinical training and how it felt when no one spoke out against it.
Tools for Responding to Bias
Goal: Communicate a message of disapproval without damaging interpersonal relations
Be ready
- Rehearse what you would do or say in situations before they occur
- You know what feels most natural for you
- Remember the Bystander effect
- No one else will probably say anything
- Consider saying something, even if it is a small effort
Decide whether to say anything
- Silence is often interpreted as passive complicity
- Consider saying something simple like “that’s not cool” or “I don’t appreciate that”
- You don’t have to take a dramatic stand if you’re not comfortable or not able
Consider taking more time if:
- You know you respond badly in the heat of the moment
- You fear retaliation or mistreatment and need more support
- The situation is not appropriate (ie during a patient care emergency)
Stay calm
- Try to speak calmly, or consider waiting until another time
- Try to avoid inducing defensiveness
Clarify or Restate what was said
- Make sure you are understanding what was said
- Make the speaker think about what they said
- “So I am hearing you say….” Or even “excuse me, what was that you just said?”
- If a joke was made, ask the speaker to explain it to you
- When identifying the behavior, avoid labeling, name-calling or the use of loaded terms.
- Describe the behavior; don’t label the person.
Appeal to principles
- “I’m surprised to hear you say that. I think of you as more… (egalitarian, open-minded, etc).”
Change the subject (more effective than it sounds)
- You may not change beliefs but you may change behavior
Reflect on what happened
- Journaling or meditation
- Debriefing with a peer or college mentor
It’s never too late to bring it up
- Defer until later: “let’s talk about this when we have more time”
- Bring it up later: “I’ve been thinking about what you said last week…”
Don’t get discouraged
- You won’t know the lasting impact you’ll have later on, both for the speaker and those who were present
Know your resources
- College mentors and college heads
- Other trusted faculty
- Student Affairs office
Traps to Avoid
Avoid making light of any comments, making jokes (which often backfire!), or getting defensive