Q Center

A-Spec Discussion Group

The Q Center is proud to announce a new and much-anticipated program: A-Spec Discussion Group!

What?

A-Spec Discussion Group (ASDG) is a space for anyone under the asexual or aromantic umbrella who is seeking community and connection. In these loosely structured sessions, A-Spec folks will have the opportunity to share their experiences, discuss the issues affecting them, and seek support from their peers. Allies and folks exploring A-Spec identity are always welcome!

Where?

ASDG is held in the Q Center, located on the third floor of the HUB in room 315.

When?

Sessions are once a month on Wednesdays from 6:00 PM to 7:30 PM. ASDG meeting dates for the autumn quarter will be:

  • October 23rd, 2024
  • November 20th, 2024

ASDG FAQ

Q: Who is this for?

A: Anyone who holds, is exploring, or is interested in A-Spec identities is welcome at ASDG. You will never be required to share your identity to participate in this program. Gatekeeping by other attendees will not be tolerated.

Q: I want to learn more about A-Spec identities, but I don’t identify with them myself; can I come to ASDG?

A: Yes! Allies are welcome at ASDG. However, we ask that all attendees respect the purpose of the space, which is to support people who hold A-Spec identities. Be mindful and listen to those around you.

Q: Do I have to be on time to ASDG?

A: No! Join us at any point during the session.

Q: Do I have to come to every ASDG session?

A: No! Come to one, or three, or all sessions throughout the year.

Q: Are there rules for ASDG?

A: Sort of. To maintain a respectful space, we have some expectations and guidelines that we hope our attendees will stick to. ASDG is facilitated by a Q Center staff member who will guide the conversation per those expectations.

ASDG Space Expectations

  • Gatekeeping, exclusionism, and discrimination of any kind will not be tolerated, ever. All are welcome at ASDG.
  • Sharing is always welcome but never required. No one is obligated to justify their presence or their contributions here by revealing personal information they don’t want to share.
  • This group is for adults, so adult topics may come up. These conversations will not be censored or discouraged.
  • Think critically about the questions you want to ask an individual about their personal experience before you do so. Would you want to be asked about this in a group setting? Are you presenting your question with respect? 
  • Respect the validity of everyone’s experiences and contributions. An experience that differs from yours is not a “bad” or “wrong” experience.
  • Try to maintain a calm and respectful attitude, even in times of disagreement.

Attendees are welcome to seek support with the group, but this is not a group therapy session. If you begin to feel that you rely on these meetings for your mental/emotional well-being, consider reaching out to UW Counseling Center for more support.